What if the way we talk about addiction recovery is actually pushing people away from getting help?
In this episode of The Hanley Effect, Dr. John Dyben sits down with Amber Hollingsworth, LPC, MAC, LPS, founder of Hope for Families Recovery Consultants, and creator of the popular YouTube channel Put the Shovel Down.
With more than two decades of experience working with individuals and families affected by substance use disorder, Amber shares a refreshingly hopeful and practical perspective on addiction, recovery, and family dynamics. Together, she and Dr. Dyben explore why “waiting for rock bottom” can be dangerous, how families can positively influence a loved one toward change, and why compassion and humility are essential in recovery conversations.
Amber also opens up about growing up in a family impacted by addiction, her unconventional path into the field, and the lessons she learned working in inpatient treatment, detox, and private practice. Most importantly, she offers families actionable guidance on how to approach difficult conversations without shame, blame, or confrontation.
This episode is a powerful reminder that addiction is not the whole story of a person and that recovery is possible for everyone involved.
In This Episode:
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- Why Amber rejects the “they have to want help first” mindset
- How families can influence motivation for recovery
- The importance of “raising the bottom” before devastating consequences occur
- Common mistakes families make when talking to loved ones about addiction
- Why humility works better than confrontation
- How addiction treatment and counseling have evolved over the years
- The problem with negative recovery statistics and fear-based messaging
- Why addiction is something a person has not who they are
About Amber Hollingsworth
Amber Hollingsworth is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Master Addictions Counselor (MAC), and Licensed Professional Supervisor (LPS) with more than 20 years of experience in addiction treatment and family recovery support. She is the founder of Hope for Families Recovery Consultants and the creator of the YouTube channel Put the Shovel Down, where she provides education and practical tools for families navigating addiction and recovery.
Resources & Links
- Amber Hollingsworth’s YouTube Channel: Put the Shovel Down
- Amber’s Website: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/
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